My brother Amit and his wife (my bhabhi) Shibani weded
eachother on december 9th 2001. This page is their
personal page. This is a just a dedication to them from
me as I love and respect them truly.It is an arranged
marriage thus they didn't know eachother much before.But
after marriage they now love eachother very much. They think that it's not always
necessary first to love anyone and marry. Even one can
marry and afterwards fall in love.They believe that
everyone is made for someone and it is already written in
their destiny.They believe that they are married because
they are made for eachother,it is written before and
everyone is destined for someone whom they are going to
find someday surely. They also think to make a perfect
couple there are many things which are essential. First
there should be proper understanding and trust between
the couple then there should be respect for eachother's
feelings and emotions.A couple should be like friends
living a life sharing everything 50-50. They should
sacrifice and do compromises depending upon the
situations. They should care for eachother and their love
should be so pure that they will be with eachother in
each birth. These are the things which are very important
in a sucessful love relationship accrding to them.
The essentials to have a
sucessful and lasting relationship
Caress As
You Would Be Caressed
Take care of eachother with your healing touch.Like
babies can die with lack of touching, so can marriages
break from lack of closeness.
Be A
Friend and Partner
Friendship between a couple's relationship is very much
essential to last forever. Both should walk together
holding hands to hands and sharing everything equally as
true friends and beware of becoming battling enemies
under the same roof.
Love One
Another
Love is your river of life-your eternal source of
recreating yourselves. Above all else-love one another.
Respect
Each Other's Rights
Remember that each is a person of flesh and blood,
entitled to his or her own choices and mistakes. Each
owns himself, and has the right to equality.
Listen To
Each Other
And hear not only words, but also the non-language of
tone, mood, and expression. Learn to listen to understand
rather than listening to argue.
Be Open
With Each Other
Bind not yourselves in the secretness that causes
suspicion and doubt. Trust and reveal yourselves to each
other, even as the budding rose opens to reveal its
fragrance and beauty.
Allow The
Other to Be an Individual
Seek not to create for each other a new mold that can
only fit with much discomfort and pain. Accept the other
as they are, as you would have yourself accepted.
Give Each
Other Approval
Remember criticism divides, while compliments encourage
confidence in the other. Hasten not to point out the
other's mistakes, for each will soon discover his own.
Cherish
Your Union
Let no one come between your togetherness, not child, not
friend, nor worldly goods. Yet maintain enough
separateness to allow each other his or her own
uniqueness.
Me Bhaiyaa(brother) and
Bhabhi(brother's wife)
A SITE DEDICATED TO MY
LOVING SIS RUPA
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